When a relationship is complete, you can count on pain showing up and its overwhelming.The only difference is we all experince it on different levels.The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.Relationship can quickly change our routines, habits and obligations. Like one of my known person was not in the habit of brushing at night but when she came, she changed everything.Small things but matter most.The more settled we become with our love ,the harder it can become to envision a different life.More often then not love can feel more like a fantasy, it is a affirmation of free will.when we open our mind to behave in a diferent way, we create the freedom to love..To open our hearts to love is perhaps the greatest gift we can give to ourself.
When we make the decision to go for results in our love relationships, thats the real moment we make our partner happy. This is actually an important path to passion, a path to trust also called intimacy.Trust between couples communication bonds in a very special way.We all want to experience intimacy another form of passion.The way how you feel with your partner. They move close and get tied in unity,love and satisfaction.The bond an everlasting and unconditional.
The greatest part is to reveal your innerself in being transparent and some which is genuine, unimaginable and worth while.The unity of lovers does the work of angel and can virtually produce anything if they desire.Being romantic with your intentions reflect thoughtful affection and bond.Its a matter of respect an acknowledgement of commitment and visible evidence of love.When you say frequently "i love you" is redeeming the meaning of love and demonstrates that the words are true.Love can inspire a lifetime of emotion and passion. So great relationship with your partner begins with how much we love each other foremost in our mind, everyday and every second. Like attracts love and that is how what we become we attract.Love is a quest not only for anwers but for questions and giving undivided attention to your loved one.
And on that cheek and o'er that brow
So soft, so calm, yet eloquent,
The smiles that win, the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,—
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent.
Friday, August 10, 2007
Thursday, August 9, 2007
Lonely
Its nearing almost 144 hours since i lost all ready communication with her. The world is spinning so fast. Well i am in a negative state of mind also called loneliness marked by a sense of isolation which is a bit different from solitude.The bitter form of loneliness perhaps is being with people but still feel lonely.. Its an harsh punishment state of discomfort marked by estrangement which you are giving yourself coz you miss somebody terribly in your life. Loneliness is such that when your cell rings you get a smile and when you see somebody else you go to a state of uncomfort.You don't get your sleep as if her thoughts keep waking you up. You skip everything just to be left alone with memories about her smile, her talks,her small things.
An unconscious negative biasmay start feeding your depression.Its the loudest noise of your heart your are neither in heaven or hell you feel like loosing ever thing and you totally live with a single hope that you will meet her one day.Its a situation where you have met your real inner self its not harmful its hurtful.It drives you insane. you feel sad , depressed all alone and you avoid meeting new people. and you become all the while critical. All the while you just being with her snaps, letters , talks, emails and thinking about all those passed moments.Precondition of living real life just becomes a burden.You walk a lonely path in the company of grief. Lost and dwell ed deep your love feelings pacing slowly at the other end.Our memories, our thoughts, ideas , notions attitude and feelings all go hay wire.Only in love where one accepts to be lonely does he feels solitude of things. One relation to them and to lay one open to pain. Unaccustomed to caring we become paranoid and insecure.
Amid the darkest clouds of tumultuous loneliness there is storm of pain , hope and confusion.
Ships that pass in the night, and speak each other in passing,
Only a signal shown, and a distant voice in the darkness;
So on the ocean of life, we pass and speak one another,
Only a look and a voice, then darkness again and a silence.
An unconscious negative biasmay start feeding your depression.Its the loudest noise of your heart your are neither in heaven or hell you feel like loosing ever thing and you totally live with a single hope that you will meet her one day.Its a situation where you have met your real inner self its not harmful its hurtful.It drives you insane. you feel sad , depressed all alone and you avoid meeting new people. and you become all the while critical. All the while you just being with her snaps, letters , talks, emails and thinking about all those passed moments.Precondition of living real life just becomes a burden.You walk a lonely path in the company of grief. Lost and dwell ed deep your love feelings pacing slowly at the other end.Our memories, our thoughts, ideas , notions attitude and feelings all go hay wire.Only in love where one accepts to be lonely does he feels solitude of things. One relation to them and to lay one open to pain. Unaccustomed to caring we become paranoid and insecure.
Amid the darkest clouds of tumultuous loneliness there is storm of pain , hope and confusion.
Ships that pass in the night, and speak each other in passing,
Only a signal shown, and a distant voice in the darkness;
So on the ocean of life, we pass and speak one another,
Only a look and a voice, then darkness again and a silence.
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Love Lost
The act seems to be casual, whether it actually is or not but its easy to reconnect with old flames without appreciating whats @ stake.Most of these romantic reunions are between first or early loves. Lost and found relationships are surprisingly successful as long as partners are not attached at the time they reconnect.How to endure the rekindled first love. Many of grew up together or shared friends and values.Each of us must have spent some formative years together and became standards for all romances since. Yet with all resilience we all at some point place our lost love feeling in a unpremeditated way,placing our lovers at emotional risk.
Most of rekindled romances are saddled with past problems and doomed to fail.Most of us go through this coz of distances, family moves, disapproving parents, and emotional uncertainty.And when things start we feel our separation was unjust and now we finally have the chance to set things right. Such love lost may mean judgemental but they never ended not like fantasies.
We can even risk our friendship, life savings and our emotional stability- just to be together.These romantic endeavour may be ineffaceable so off-the track intense often fizzling and mining the depth of that early bond.These bonds ignited results with volatile, fiery, highly sexual but short-lived chemicals of fresh love.Thus setting the stage for once in lifetime emotional intensity paired with distinctive occasion for affection-creating a model of love that persists for life.The ideals and longings could be fed by craving to find a satisfying end.The idea that threats to the relationship is can actually increase the feelings of longing and passion.The intensifying ardent potent love feeling impels us to try with our all strength to get our departed lost love.
Reuniting can be cause of celebration but with unwelcome consequences.Lost love may be perfect emotional bondage but true victims are the person who are loving you wildly and never saw it coming.Giving love is one thing,getting it is another and all together different aspect.Doing so they threaten relationship in which they are, affecting the very identity of their lover.Lost love evoke conflicting feelings may cause more stress and outright dislike.Of all decisions we make in our life few are very important as who you want to live with.Making a bad move and we end up spending days and night in mired unhappiness consumed by anxiety and depression.We love somebody not by mysterious entity but through a magical feeling called "love hit" and it has everything to do with enduring bond which you are in.As we love somebody we try to know him or her and determining what you can and what you cant trust.Relying on him/her for certain needs and developing a level of commitment and finally there is a romantic feeling which prompts touch.
Going back is clearly your blind strategy of pushing something which never works and it just and expression of our anxiety and its not getting what we want. Sometimes its hard to See a path into future but incorporate both your current needs and your partners love.Too many people, however, confuses old flame for a chance, and there is an all-important distinction between the two.... spiraling down into depression, hopelessness, and despair....
Most of rekindled romances are saddled with past problems and doomed to fail.Most of us go through this coz of distances, family moves, disapproving parents, and emotional uncertainty.And when things start we feel our separation was unjust and now we finally have the chance to set things right. Such love lost may mean judgemental but they never ended not like fantasies.
We can even risk our friendship, life savings and our emotional stability- just to be together.These romantic endeavour may be ineffaceable so off-the track intense often fizzling and mining the depth of that early bond.These bonds ignited results with volatile, fiery, highly sexual but short-lived chemicals of fresh love.Thus setting the stage for once in lifetime emotional intensity paired with distinctive occasion for affection-creating a model of love that persists for life.The ideals and longings could be fed by craving to find a satisfying end.The idea that threats to the relationship is can actually increase the feelings of longing and passion.The intensifying ardent potent love feeling impels us to try with our all strength to get our departed lost love.
Reuniting can be cause of celebration but with unwelcome consequences.Lost love may be perfect emotional bondage but true victims are the person who are loving you wildly and never saw it coming.Giving love is one thing,getting it is another and all together different aspect.Doing so they threaten relationship in which they are, affecting the very identity of their lover.Lost love evoke conflicting feelings may cause more stress and outright dislike.Of all decisions we make in our life few are very important as who you want to live with.Making a bad move and we end up spending days and night in mired unhappiness consumed by anxiety and depression.We love somebody not by mysterious entity but through a magical feeling called "love hit" and it has everything to do with enduring bond which you are in.As we love somebody we try to know him or her and determining what you can and what you cant trust.Relying on him/her for certain needs and developing a level of commitment and finally there is a romantic feeling which prompts touch.
Going back is clearly your blind strategy of pushing something which never works and it just and expression of our anxiety and its not getting what we want. Sometimes its hard to See a path into future but incorporate both your current needs and your partners love.Too many people, however, confuses old flame for a chance, and there is an all-important distinction between the two.... spiraling down into depression, hopelessness, and despair....
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Special For Me
She is special ! Not everyone is blessed with true love in his/her life. I am talking about true love, love which originates from your heart and and where its not easy for you to forget somebody whom you had loved more then your life. This is one of the greatest gifts of God. She can only be loved more then that by her family but that too can sometimes be least felt.Unconditional love what i mean to say.Its more about sacrifice somebody makes to be with somebody who is special for him.
You are special to me,whom i trust the most.I still treasure something which we have shared discussed. Times where you have summoned a smile on my face and paths where we have converged for a while.The confidence you have displayed and moments which you persuaded with me.My hours with you flew as fast as it can, left knowing how fortunate i am having you in my life.She is somebody with whom i can confide my pains, i can expect support from, and cooperation at all stages of my love.You have made me learn that in love is more is not better,even a slight willingness to love is sufficient and there is no object called love. It exist before emotions, feelings, ideas.
True love which starts from you and ends with you is eternal without searching.Without wanting you make me feel it. No matter how possessive i become you can never be lost.The wanting soul sees only what i wants but unwinding soul sees what is hidden. You are special~ for me two ways one origin. You are deep and complete ,elusive but certainty something real than perception and opinions. Have much and loose everything...... That's you for me.
You are special to me,whom i trust the most.I still treasure something which we have shared discussed. Times where you have summoned a smile on my face and paths where we have converged for a while.The confidence you have displayed and moments which you persuaded with me.My hours with you flew as fast as it can, left knowing how fortunate i am having you in my life.She is somebody with whom i can confide my pains, i can expect support from, and cooperation at all stages of my love.You have made me learn that in love is more is not better,even a slight willingness to love is sufficient and there is no object called love. It exist before emotions, feelings, ideas.
True love which starts from you and ends with you is eternal without searching.Without wanting you make me feel it. No matter how possessive i become you can never be lost.The wanting soul sees only what i wants but unwinding soul sees what is hidden. You are special~ for me two ways one origin. You are deep and complete ,elusive but certainty something real than perception and opinions. Have much and loose everything...... That's you for me.
Friday, August 3, 2007
Love Reality
They met say few years back on a popular social network site.The guy was as usual wanted to know about her from day one,but you know girls are full of excuses when they are not interested. Well the first day encounter was too formal with just some chit chat. Guy knew from day one that there is something interesting about her which keep him wait for her and what not. She has an uncanny ability to be mysterious, very caring but with little bit of two minds.Days were passing on and so was there regular chatting.He was finding her interesting and girl was too apprehensive to be dominated by anybodys emotions.She was too strong to let her sensitive side take over her mind.He came to know a lot about her and lucky enough to come close to her one day. The first blush of new love was filled and it over flowed.We revert to seeing our love as need to be with each other. Our feelings cease to exist and its was not about someone who generates love but becomes someone who seeks love.This was the 1st phase in their feelings for each other.
But her life was not that the guy has seen. It was totally different. She has already seen and suffered something which she was not eager to share. As the confidence grew the feeling was strong and so was the urge to understand and share everything.The guy had by now found out that she was very trustworthy and more of because of simple attitude and love for life. She was kinda living a life a person who seeks happiness from small thing. Emotional by nature but something taught her not to get emotional with any body or anytime. But the guy had love for her a real love and he wanted to nurture it with trust,time and understanding.At that point he found out that he was clearly in love with her but was not sure if she had the same feeling.He just felt that love didnt choose to rest in the other person's heart...This was 2nd phase which came up in between them.
The girl started to love his company, his way of talking his attention and his attitude, she was completely in sync with his mind and thinking.The guy loved to share everything with her and most importantly he liked her way of thinking.He felt he was blessed to have someone as understanding , simple and true to life. She never ever showed any emotion for him which could have been intense but just carried on with time as if she was waiting for something on its own to own.The greatest part of love is that how you deal with it is how you treat yourself, and all our heart feels the same joys and pain as you, even if our Lives and ways are different.Its was if they didnt choose love , love choose them.All its was for them was to accept it for all its mystery when it came in their life.The 3rd phase came up quickly.
Things were shaping on well with them and as if they event didnt realised that they have come so close as ever. But somewhere the girl was confused, something was there which she was not able to accept easily. A sense of perplexity was there.She wanted to pour everything but the guy had other things in mind. His love was as pure as it can be. He loved her from deep chore of his heart. He tried judging his feelings for her. If he was in love or not or was it just a feeling of being with somebody.Its said that when you are in love with somebody you forget pain, you cease to exist on your own and small things can make you happy. Your anger turns into smile,your ego takes backseat and everything you do is for her. Wanted to taste the real thing about love he slashed his hand to see if he feels pain... How come he didnt felt a sense of pain in it... True it was.. it was love and nothing but love.But she told him something which he never heard about.Its was about her real guarded feeling. On that night she poured everything in spite of the fact that for the guy,past mattered least in their relationship.Coz love is all about loving unconditionally and without anything that might matter in it. Though there was something as if you love somebody and she loves you back but the love chooses to leave you for sometime, do not try to reclaim it or assess blame,Let it go.. There is reason and there is meaning. You would know in time.This was the 4th phase in their relationship.
Well what did happened was exciting, lovely and god had a reason to see them together ever after and so HE wanted this thing to happen.But love was not ready to depart and he wanted to be part of her life and she wanted him in her life.Love allows us to be foolish, to forget tears for one smile, a dozen selfish acts for one caring gesture; They have reason to be together and they know that they have one inseparable soul.They will exist together and will leave together that is just being "in love" which not all of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident,and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
"Death cannot stop true love; it can only delay it for a little while."~The Princess Bride
But her life was not that the guy has seen. It was totally different. She has already seen and suffered something which she was not eager to share. As the confidence grew the feeling was strong and so was the urge to understand and share everything.The guy had by now found out that she was very trustworthy and more of because of simple attitude and love for life. She was kinda living a life a person who seeks happiness from small thing. Emotional by nature but something taught her not to get emotional with any body or anytime. But the guy had love for her a real love and he wanted to nurture it with trust,time and understanding.At that point he found out that he was clearly in love with her but was not sure if she had the same feeling.He just felt that love didnt choose to rest in the other person's heart...This was 2nd phase which came up in between them.
The girl started to love his company, his way of talking his attention and his attitude, she was completely in sync with his mind and thinking.The guy loved to share everything with her and most importantly he liked her way of thinking.He felt he was blessed to have someone as understanding , simple and true to life. She never ever showed any emotion for him which could have been intense but just carried on with time as if she was waiting for something on its own to own.The greatest part of love is that how you deal with it is how you treat yourself, and all our heart feels the same joys and pain as you, even if our Lives and ways are different.Its was if they didnt choose love , love choose them.All its was for them was to accept it for all its mystery when it came in their life.The 3rd phase came up quickly.
Things were shaping on well with them and as if they event didnt realised that they have come so close as ever. But somewhere the girl was confused, something was there which she was not able to accept easily. A sense of perplexity was there.She wanted to pour everything but the guy had other things in mind. His love was as pure as it can be. He loved her from deep chore of his heart. He tried judging his feelings for her. If he was in love or not or was it just a feeling of being with somebody.Its said that when you are in love with somebody you forget pain, you cease to exist on your own and small things can make you happy. Your anger turns into smile,your ego takes backseat and everything you do is for her. Wanted to taste the real thing about love he slashed his hand to see if he feels pain... How come he didnt felt a sense of pain in it... True it was.. it was love and nothing but love.But she told him something which he never heard about.Its was about her real guarded feeling. On that night she poured everything in spite of the fact that for the guy,past mattered least in their relationship.Coz love is all about loving unconditionally and without anything that might matter in it. Though there was something as if you love somebody and she loves you back but the love chooses to leave you for sometime, do not try to reclaim it or assess blame,Let it go.. There is reason and there is meaning. You would know in time.This was the 4th phase in their relationship.
Well what did happened was exciting, lovely and god had a reason to see them together ever after and so HE wanted this thing to happen.But love was not ready to depart and he wanted to be part of her life and she wanted him in her life.Love allows us to be foolish, to forget tears for one smile, a dozen selfish acts for one caring gesture; They have reason to be together and they know that they have one inseparable soul.They will exist together and will leave together that is just being "in love" which not all of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident,and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
"Death cannot stop true love; it can only delay it for a little while."~The Princess Bride
फ्लिर्ट करे
It’s Saturday night in a crowded pub. You are dressed to kill and you hit straight looking for somebody who you lock in for a conversation or what not ;) You are alone coz your girlfriend was not able to join for (….some reason lets not into that detail.)You finally did manage to attract somebody and she walks over to you…. Hmm whts next? Are you gonna wait for somebody to introduce you to her or you want to just play it hard… Real part what you want to do to keep her interested in you (ultimate adinos)? Hmm my art of flirting … Quite simple.
She is drop dead looking gorgeous in that black top batting her eyelashes and casually playing with her hair. Hmm... Why not lean toward her and make a slight contact touching her arm. Social flirting lets give it name… Feeling desirable and attractive. You are the ultimate guy. Is your ego being boosted? Flirting is one of the great simple joys of life which few people know about. Read more…
Flirting gives you an immediate excitement, appreciated and darn good you make the other person. Did somebody said flattered? You must remember two things when you are flirting your actual conversation viz. your body language. Feeling invited to catch a glimpse of most attractive characteristic and positive behavior.
An art when well done gives you great confidence and the other person to have fun and think about you all the while.Hmm still want to be introduced. Why not start talking?
Flirting, the essence lies in saying with an underlying meaning that you are interested. You might say directly “I am interested” Did somebody mentioned other things.Something are better not told directly but comes with your eyes, body language, nodding, smiles and complementing. I am already looking for something big.
This is something very important don’t wait for in return for your flirting skills; not a dance, a date n off course a date. Let flirting be playful chitchat. Let her flirt with you and do the same, but set you straight don’t look more beyond it. (I know you will your wish)
You are already showing interest in that person so be attentive to question that might be pumped. Oops you got caught in seductive situation …..Calling 911 is that what you will do... naah not exactly. Stick to the basic, be an active listener you will get out of it and will have plenty of subject to discuss.
“God must be in a very good mood today, he made us meet” The most interesting people are usually the ones who are most interested in others.
You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard. Smile like you haven’t done that before, a smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.
Enough. Bored…Excuse me not for you…
She is drop dead looking gorgeous in that black top batting her eyelashes and casually playing with her hair. Hmm... Why not lean toward her and make a slight contact touching her arm. Social flirting lets give it name… Feeling desirable and attractive. You are the ultimate guy. Is your ego being boosted? Flirting is one of the great simple joys of life which few people know about. Read more…
Flirting gives you an immediate excitement, appreciated and darn good you make the other person. Did somebody said flattered? You must remember two things when you are flirting your actual conversation viz. your body language. Feeling invited to catch a glimpse of most attractive characteristic and positive behavior.
An art when well done gives you great confidence and the other person to have fun and think about you all the while.Hmm still want to be introduced. Why not start talking?
Flirting, the essence lies in saying with an underlying meaning that you are interested. You might say directly “I am interested” Did somebody mentioned other things.Something are better not told directly but comes with your eyes, body language, nodding, smiles and complementing. I am already looking for something big.
This is something very important don’t wait for in return for your flirting skills; not a dance, a date n off course a date. Let flirting be playful chitchat. Let her flirt with you and do the same, but set you straight don’t look more beyond it. (I know you will your wish)
You are already showing interest in that person so be attentive to question that might be pumped. Oops you got caught in seductive situation …..Calling 911 is that what you will do... naah not exactly. Stick to the basic, be an active listener you will get out of it and will have plenty of subject to discuss.
“God must be in a very good mood today, he made us meet” The most interesting people are usually the ones who are most interested in others.
You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard. Smile like you haven’t done that before, a smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.
Enough. Bored…Excuse me not for you…
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