Friday, August 3, 2007

फ्लिर्ट करे

It’s Saturday night in a crowded pub. You are dressed to kill and you hit straight looking for somebody who you lock in for a conversation or what not ;) You are alone coz your girlfriend was not able to join for (….some reason lets not into that detail.)You finally did manage to attract somebody and she walks over to you…. Hmm whts next? Are you gonna wait for somebody to introduce you to her or you want to just play it hard… Real part what you want to do to keep her interested in you (ultimate adinos)? Hmm my art of flirting … Quite simple.

She is drop dead looking gorgeous in that black top batting her eyelashes and casually playing with her hair. Hmm... Why not lean toward her and make a slight contact touching her arm. Social flirting lets give it name… Feeling desirable and attractive. You are the ultimate guy. Is your ego being boosted? Flirting is one of the great simple joys of life which few people know about. Read more…


Flirting gives you an immediate excitement, appreciated and darn good you make the other person. Did somebody said flattered? You must remember two things when you are flirting your actual conversation viz. your body language. Feeling invited to catch a glimpse of most attractive characteristic and positive behavior.

An art when well done gives you great confidence and the other person to have fun and think about you all the while.Hmm still want to be introduced. Why not start talking?
Flirting, the essence lies in saying with an underlying meaning that you are interested. You might say directly “I am interested” Did somebody mentioned other things.Something are better not told directly but comes with your eyes, body language, nodding, smiles and complementing. I am already looking for something big.

This is something very important don’t wait for in return for your flirting skills; not a dance, a date n off course a date. Let flirting be playful chitchat. Let her flirt with you and do the same, but set you straight don’t look more beyond it. (I know you will your wish)

You are already showing interest in that person so be attentive to question that might be pumped. Oops you got caught in seductive situation …..Calling 911 is that what you will do... naah not exactly. Stick to the basic, be an active listener you will get out of it and will have plenty of subject to discuss.

“God must be in a very good mood today, he made us meet” The most interesting people are usually the ones who are most interested in others.

You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard. Smile like you haven’t done that before, a smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.


Enough. Bored…Excuse me not for you…






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