Love Reality

They met say few years back on a popular social network site.The guy was as usual wanted to know about her from day one,but you know girls are full of excuses when they are not interested. Well the first day encounter was too formal with just some chit chat. Guy knew from day one that there is something interesting about her which keep him wait for her and what not. She has an uncanny ability to be mysterious, very caring but with little bit of two minds.Days were passing on and so was there regular chatting.He was finding her interesting and girl was too apprehensive to be dominated by anybodys emotions.She was too strong to let her sensitive side take over her mind.He came to know a lot about her and lucky enough to come close to her one day. The first blush of new love was filled and it over flowed.We revert to seeing our love as need to be with each other. Our feelings cease to exist and its was not about someone who generates love but becomes someone who seeks love.This was the 1st phase in their feelings for each other.

But her life was not that the guy has seen. It was totally different. She has already seen and suffered something which she was not eager to share. As the confidence grew the feeling was strong and so was the urge to understand and share everything.The guy had by now found out that she was very trustworthy and more of because of simple attitude and love for life. She was kinda living a life a person who seeks happiness from small thing. Emotional by nature but something taught her not to get emotional with any body or anytime. But the guy had love for her a real love and he wanted to nurture it with trust,time and understanding.At that point he found out that he was clearly in love with her but was not sure if she had the same feeling.He just felt that love didnt choose to rest in the other person's heart...This was 2nd phase which came up in between them.

The girl started to love his company, his way of talking his attention and his attitude, she was completely in sync with his mind and thinking.The guy loved to share everything with her and most importantly he liked her way of thinking.He felt he was blessed to have someone as understanding , simple and true to life. She never ever showed any emotion for him which could have been intense but just carried on with time as if she was waiting for something on its own to own.The greatest part of love is that how you deal with it is how you treat yourself, and all our heart feels the same joys and pain as you, even if our Lives and ways are different.Its was if they didnt choose love , love choose them.All its was for them was to accept it for all its mystery when it came in their life.The 3rd phase came up quickly.

Things were shaping on well with them and as if they event didnt realised that they have come so close as ever. But somewhere the girl was confused, something was there which she was not able to accept easily. A sense of perplexity was there.She wanted to pour everything but the guy had other things in mind. His love was as pure as it can be. He loved her from deep chore of his heart. He tried judging his feelings for her. If he was in love or not or was it just a feeling of being with somebody.Its said that when you are in love with somebody you forget pain, you cease to exist on your own and small things can make you happy. Your anger turns into smile,your ego takes backseat and everything you do is for her. Wanted to taste the real thing about love he slashed his hand to see if he feels pain... How come he didnt felt a sense of pain in it... True it was.. it was love and nothing but love.But she told him something which he never heard about.Its was about her real guarded feeling. On that night she poured everything in spite of the fact that for the guy,past mattered least in their relationship.Coz love is all about loving unconditionally and without anything that might matter in it. Though there was something as if you love somebody and she loves you back but the love chooses to leave you for sometime, do not try to reclaim it or assess blame,Let it go.. There is reason and there is meaning. You would know in time.This was the 4th phase in their relationship.

Well what did happened was exciting, lovely and god had a reason to see them together ever after and so HE wanted this thing to happen.But love was not ready to depart and he wanted to be part of her life and she wanted him in her life.Love allows us to be foolish, to forget tears for one smile, a dozen selfish acts for one caring gesture; They have reason to be together and they know that they have one inseparable soul.They will exist together and will leave together that is just being "in love" which not all of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident,and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.

"Death cannot stop true love; it can only delay it for a little while."~The Princess Bride